cot bedding right now

I wanted to have a child badly for over four years now. Now when I finally have one, I have to admit that I am sick of it already. Do not get me wrong, it is not the baby that drives me mad and makes me hit the roof constantly, it is the work that is connected with having a baby and my wife who is constantly acting absurdly nagging. I love my wife but she is definitely an overprotective person. I could have realized this a long time ago when I noticed how she was excessively taking care of me. It was always driving me mad but I somehow cannot be mad at her as she is an extremely nice person and I love her with all my heart. Yet, it does not change a fact that she is a hag when she watches me how I treat our child. I do not know what her exact problem is but she is shouting at me while I hold our son. Can you imagine it? She is constantly telling me how I should be holding him. In addition to this, while she was giving birth those few days ago, she ordered me to go to buy a cot bedding which was kind of stupid. Can you imagine this situation? I could not reject it because it was not an offer, it was an order. Instead of being there and aiding her, I had to go to buy a cot bedding which was insane. It was her choice though.